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How I Discovered My Own Domme Aesthetic
When I got into the professional kink world nearly 25 years ago, the standard look was typically latex and leather. While there were some exceptions, like Mistress Precious in Texas, who dresses elegantly and wears a signature bow in her hair, and Mistress Ellen in San Diego, who favors a prim Victorian look, the majority…
Princess Kali’s 7 Principles of Dominance
Dominance isn’t about relentlessly pretending to be an all-powerful ruler without emotions or flaws. It’s about being a real human who enjoys expressing and exploring positive personal power in a consensual D/s dynamic. Over the years, through all of my lifestyle and professional kink adventures, I’ve learned to root my dominance in seven core principles.…
What’s it like to attend the Design Your Dominance: Virtual Intensive?
If you’ve signed up for the Design Your Dominance: Virtual Intensive (or are thinking about it), Welcome! I’m thrilled to have you there, and I know it’s going to be a valuable training. But I also know it’s a big commitment, and I imagine you haven’t had the opportunity to attend an intensive like this-at…
Erotic Humiliation Isn’t For Everyone, and It Might Not Be For You
Exploring the depths of human sexuality can be both intriguing and uncomfortable-sometimes at the same time! In my book, Enough To Make You Blush, I push the boundaries of what is “supposed” to be sexy, and how people are “supposed” to behave in the bedroom. For some, this exploration may feel thrilling and liberating.…
How to Celebrate National Erotic Humiliation Day
I can’t believe 2025 will be the 10th Annual National Erotic Humiliation Day! Time flies when you’re being pervy. Every year on the last Saturday of October (it will be Saturday, October 25th) we celebrate all of our dirty desires and share them with the world to honor a deeply misunderstood fetish: psychological torment and…
The Red Key Club is Moving to RedKeyClub.com!
After four incredible years of hosting the Red Key Club right here on Patreon, I’m thrilled to announce that we’re taking the leap to a bigger and better private platform! Say hello to the new and improved RedKeyClub.com! This move marks a significant milestone for us, and I couldn’t be more excited about the possibilities…
How to Use Kink Books to Improve Your Practice
If you’re looking to deepen your understanding of kink and BDSM, reading books by kink experts can be a fantastic way to learn. Whether you’re new to the scene or a seasoned kinkster, there’s always something new to explore. Here are some tips on how to use kink books to enhance your practice and knowledge.…
Daily D/s: A Communication Journal for Dominants and Submissives – Now Available!
The Daily D/s Journal is crafted to enhance the dynamic between dominants and submissives. Whether you are experienced or new to the BDSM lifestyle, this journal will support and enrich your unique relationship through reflection, growth, and connection. It also serves as a record of your journey together, allowing you to look back at your…
Elevate Your Findom Confidence with the FinDom Humiliation Virtual Intensive
Hey there! If you’ve ever dipped your toes into the world of financial domination (findom), you know it can be both exhilarating and daunting. Whether you’re a newbie or a seasoned pro, building and sustaining confidence and a genuine understanding is crucial for success and enjoyment in this unique kink. That’s where my intensive comes…
Finding the Filthy Words That Are Music To Your Ears: Verbal Erotic Humiliation
Exploring the realms of dirty talk and filthy words can be an exhilarating journey, especially when delving into consensual erotic humiliation play scenes. Verbal Erotic Humiliation Is a Powerful Tool One of the most thrilling aspects of humiliation kink is the exploration of language. Words, when wielded with intention, have the power to electrify the…
27 Times To Send To Your Favorite FinDom
In the fabulous world of financial domination, sending money to your favorite findom is more than just a transaction—it’s a way to show loyalty, devotion, appreciation, adoration, respect, and so much more. Financial tributes and gifts carry a lot of meaning, transforming ordinary moments into powerful statements of submission and connection. This isn’t just about…
Announcing the First Annual International FinDom Day
As a long time findomme and financial domination enthusiast, I’ve decided that we money kinksters need a holiday to celebrate our kink. Since I created National Erotic Humiliation Day in 2016, it’s been a delight to join my fellow humiliation fetishists in celebrating our shared proclivities. Shedding light on erotic humiliation feels especially meaningful since…
Selecting the Right Kink Coach for Your Journey
So, you and your partner have delved into the enticing world of femdom and Female Led Relationships (FLRs), where the power dynamics tilt in favor of the woman. It’s not just about bedroom antics; it’s a lifestyle, a dynamic that infuses your everyday existence with a delicious dose of power play and mutual satisfaction. But,…
Common Obstacles to Mutually Satisfying Erotic Humiliation
Like any risky or “out-of-the-norm” activity, there are plenty of obstacles that might make it difficult for people to either find opportunities to engage or even express their interest in humiliation play. Here are a few that I’ve seen come up over and over again: Most Common Obstacles to Erotic Humiliation Play Not Many People…
What’s It Like to Attend the FinDom Philosophy: Virtual Intensive?
If you’ve signed up for the FinDom Philosophy: Virtual Intensive (or are thinking about it), Welcome! I’m thrilled to have you there, and I know it’s going to be a valuable training. But I also know it’s a big commitment, and I imagine you haven’t had the opportunity to attend an intensive like this—at least,…
Why I Changed the Name of My FinDom Intensive
I have been leading a 2-day virtual intensive class on financial domination for the past four years, teaching about it for nearly a decade, and I’ve been playing with financial domination for more than twenty years. In all this time, I am continually struck by how many people—including kinksters!—think of findom as inherently abusive. The…
3 Common Stereotypes about Erotic Humiliation
A lot of folks who might be curious about erotic humiliation avoid exploring it because, more than just about any other aspect of BDSM, it’s tied up in a long list of negative stereotypes about both the behavior and the people who engage in it. If these stereotypes have stopped you from exploring your…
ProDom Playbook: A Workbook for Erotic Entrepreneurs – Now Available!
In this day and age of industry oversaturation, every erotic entrepreneur needs a cohesive brand in order to be successful and memorable. But what does that mean, exactly, and how do you leverage your brand to turn your ideal audience into loyal clients and customers? In THE PRODOM PLAYBOOK, Princess Kali walks new and veteran…
What’s Your “Kernel Kink”?
Kink is all about feelings—or, more specifically, seeking out and creating certain feelings for ourselves and our partners. Why do we want someone to whip us and call us dirty names? Why do we want to “force” our (enthusiastically willing) submissive to drink our piss and call us mistress? Why do we want to do…
The 4 C’s of a Successful Scene
Hey, people who are new to exploring kink and sexuality! An important thing to remember as you’re starting out is that the hottest experiences can take a little time to build. No one is going to be your perfect Dom or sub from the start. Here are the 4 C’s of a successful…
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Stormy
Thank you for a great class last night. I identify as a submissive and found the insights into the Dominants views very helpful. I feel I walked away with new tools to help with better communication and understanding in my relationships.
Ms Mode
Thank you for your class at IMsL, I thoroughly enjoyed it. I'd never been to a Humiliation/Degradation class before, so I really learned a lot. The most interesting part was learning about different levels/intensities of play in the spectrum, and all the options that were available.
Cricket
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