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Workshops are available as 60, 90, or 120 minute presentations.
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Featured Classes
Design Your Dominance (New!)
Design Your Dominance is for anyone ready to explore the kind of power that grows and changes with you. Kali shows how dominance is not fixed but evolves with your experiences, desires, and confidence, so no matter where you are on your path, this class has something to offer. Drawing on decades of experience as a FemDom, she breaks down the core elements of authentic dominance, including energy, presence, tone, and intention, and shows practical ways to bring them together in a way that feels natural and powerful. You will leave inspired with fresh insights and concrete ideas to express your dominance in a way that is uniquely yours right now and ready to evolve even further.
Authentic Kink
Kink is intensely personal, but figuring out who your kinky self really is, what excites you, what feels good, and what doesn’t, can be surprisingly tricky. You can go through scene after scene and still feel like something is missing or off. A truly powerful kink experience isn’t just about the activities you do or the skills you practice. It’s about understanding yourself, your desires, your limits, and the ways you want to show up in a scene. In this class, Princess Kali will guide you in identifying your unique preferences, your boundaries, and the patterns that help you get the most out of your experiences. You’ll also pick up practical tips for communication, scene planning, and mindset that make your kink life richer, safer, and more fulfilling.
Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation
Humiliation is one of the most thrilling and nuanced ways to explore power, but it can feel intimidating if you’re not sure where to start. This class gives you a strong foundation for understanding erotic humiliation, including how to negotiate scenes, maintain psychological safety, and respond if things don’t go as planned.
Kali will guide you through all levels of intensity, from light embarrassment to heavy degradation, and give you practical tools for creating scenes that are exciting, safe, and satisfying for everyone involved. You’ll also get a clear overview of popular ways to play, tips for setting boundaries, and strategies for exploring humiliation with confidence, creativity, and care. By the end of this class, you’ll have the knowledge and confidence to approach humiliation thoughtfully, playfully, and responsibly, no matter your experience level.
FinDom Philosophy
Financial domination is one of the most misunderstood ways to explore power, and has a reputation for exploitation. Like any form of D/s, it can be misused, but when it is approached thoughtfully and ethically, using money in a lifestyle or professional D/s relationship can be an exciting and edgy way to explore kink dynamics.
In this class, Princess Kali will guide you through the psychology behind financial domination and money-kink, including the different styles and types, and how to adapt play to your unique needs and desires. You will learn the difference between lifestyle and professional financial domination, how to navigate common myths and stereotypes, and practical tips for exploring this complex and sexy kink safely and enjoyably. This class is appropriate for dominants, submissives, and switches who want a deeper understanding of financial power play.
Going Beyond Yes, No, Maybe: How to Get Exactly What You Want in Sex and Kink
Most people approach sex and kink negotiations with a simple checklist. It is the standard, but it often leaves out the nuance, depth, and excitement that make scenes truly satisfying. This class takes a completely different approach, helping you move past the basics and explore what you really want in a way that feels authentic and practical.
Kali will share the negotiation strategies she has developed over 25 years as a lifestyle and professional kinkster. These tools go beyond traditional checklists to help you communicate your desires clearly, understand your boundaries, and create more fulfilling, connected, and exciting experiences. Whether you are new to kink or have been playing for years, this class offers a fresh perspective that will change the way you approach negotiations forever.
Erotic Humiliation
Erotic Slut Shaming: Exploring Sexual Humiliation
Erotic slut shaming is one of the most thrilling ways to play with erotic embarrassment, humiliation, and degradation, whether you enjoy light teasing or pushing the limits. This class takes the ideas from Enough to Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation and focuses them on this highly arousing, intensely playful form of kink.
Princess Kali will guide you through the art of leading or entering slut-space using nudity, sex, masturbation, orgasm control, and more. You’ll learn how to create scenes that are exciting, safe, and deeply satisfying, with strategies for negotiation, boundaries, and psychological safety built right in. By the end of the class, you’ll have the confidence, creativity, and practical tools to explore erotic slut shaming in ways that are edgy, playful, and unforgettable.
A Deeper Shade of Red: Advanced Erotic Humiliation & Degradation
This class must be presented with Enough to Make You Blush as a required intro class.
This 201-level class is for anyone who has taken Enough to Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation and is ready to push further. Humiliation isn’t just about smeared mascara or groveling under boots. It’s about exploring vulnerability, trust, control, and sacrifice through absurdity, amusement, and consensual cruelty.
Princess Kali will guide you into advanced techniques in psychological sadism, showing you how to play on the edge safely while maximizing creativity and intensity. You’ll dive into deeper, more challenging aspects of erotic humiliation and degradation, with tools for negotiation, boundaries, and scene management. This class is designed for experienced players ready to explore their desires boldly. A trigger warning is advised for high intensity forms of play.
The Ethics of Erotic Humiliation: A Facilitated Discussion
This discussion must be presented with Enough to Make You Blush as an intro class.
Humiliation play can be exciting, intense, and deeply erotic, but it also raises important questions about ethics and consent. How do you distinguish adventurous play from behavior that crosses a line? How do you make sure everyone involved is safe, respected, and fulfilled? This facilitated discussion invites you to explore these questions in a thoughtful and practical way.
Kali will lead the conversation on navigating the ethics of your unique kinky and sexual play. Topics include consent, healthy motivation, boundaries, aftercare, and how to approach challenging or unexpected situations responsibly. You’ll have the chance to reflect on your own practices, hear perspectives from others, and gain strategies for ensuring that all parties remain responsible, accountable, and engaged. By the end of the discussion, you’ll have a stronger understanding of how to play boldly while staying grounded in respect, care, and mutual responsibility. Participation not required.
Dominance & Submission
You're Not a DomBot! Dominant Self-Care
In erotica and porn, dominants always look calm, confident, and in control, but real-life D/s is more complicated than that. Being a dominant takes creativity, confidence, discipline, care, and energy, and even experienced tops can feel burned out when kink starts to feel like an obligation instead of a source of joy.
This class is designed to help dominants manage expectations (their own and their submissive’s)and get the support they need to handle top-drop and avoid long-term burnout. Princess Kali will teach strategies to let go of perfectionism, navigate unrealistic assumptions, and care for yourself while still leading satisfying scenes. You’ll learn practical tools for maintaining your energy, seeking support, and staying confident, creative, and fully present in your dominant role.
How to Create and Maintain a Service Relationship
The term “service” often conjures images of household drudgery, but service kink isn’t just chores or to-do lists. It’s a way to explore power, connection, and erotic play through household tasks, personal attention, admin support, or even sexual service. This class gives dominants, submissives, and switches a practical framework for creating and maintaining a service relationship that is satisfying, engaging, and playful.
Join Kali as she shares tips and techniques for anyone already in a service-based relationship or anyone who wants to be. You’ll learn how to negotiate expectations, set boundaries, and make sure everyone gets what they need. Practical strategies will help you keep service kink dynamic and exciting, turning everyday interactions and tasks into meaningful, erotic, and rewarding experiences. By the end of the class, you’ll have the tools, confidence, and creativity to build a service relationship that is functional, fun, and fully aligned with your kink.
Play & Practice
FinDom Myth-Busting
The internet is full of stereotypes spoken as facts about financial domination. “Anything under $1,000 isn’t findom.” “Findom is you giving me money and me being mean to you.” The reality is that these sorts of sentiments are often just personal preferences, even if they’re stated as universal truths. This can lead to a lot of confusion for folks who are new to findom! Financial domination combines three big taboos: money, sex, and power. It’s precisely because these topics are so charged that findom can be so hot. However, it also means that things can easily go wrong if you don’t have a clear understanding of what you’re playing with and why. Join Princess Kali, renowned kink educator and author, to debunk the top ten most common myths and misconceptions about financial domination.
The Creative Kinksters' Guide to a Sexy and Exciting Scene
A creative scene doesn't always require an extensive set up, big muscles, or a lot of time. The Creative Kinkster philosophy says to use your brain rather than your brawn! Princess Kali will share dozens of concrete examples for both Tops AND Bottoms on how to get more inventive in designing your play time. Using inexpensive resources, imaginative mindsets and 'real world' situations that will help keep your play hot and happening often, without putting in any extra work! This class is appropriate for all sides of the power dynamic, all genders, all skill levels and differently-abled body types. It's a seriously surprisingly versatile class!
Introduction to Kink
There are so many fetishes and kink activities to choose from, welcome to an intro and overview of some of the most popular! If you’ve wondered what a ‘fetish’ really means, and what kind of play it describes then this is the class for you! We’ll be talking about topics such as sado-masochism, D/s relationships, foot fetish, sissification, financial domination, latex and leather worship, smothering, sploshing, giantess fantasies and more! Take a walk through the perverts playground of kinky adventures!
Chastity Training: Learning to Love the Lock
Chastity Training and Orgasm Control can add a whole new (and surprising!) dimension to your power exchange or sexual relationships. Chastity often strikes terror as well as exhilaration in the heart of the one being locked. As a keyholder, you can play with a mix of tease and denial, power and control, and some physical suffering thrown in for good measure! Orgasm Control can be used for short periods (hours and days) or long periods (weeks, months, and years.)
Whether you are using chastity to offer a demonstration of your submission, to prevent a bottom from getting off while they get you off, or to heighten sexual senses to bring both partners deeper into a more powerful D/s exchange. Making Chastity Training work for you is more possible than you think!
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Ready to discuss bringing Kali to your event?
ThePrincessKali @ gmail.com
You are definitely one of the few educators who are tackling the tough BDSM topics and just diving in. Your years of experience really show when you teach. I am so thankful for your knowledge!
Kelle
Thank You so much for presenting over the weekend. I greatly enjoyed your class. You helped me think of new ideas to unleash my sadistic side and cant wait to try them out. I loved your energy, personality and stories.
LD
Fabulous class! Great info delivered with enthusiasm. I loved all the practical content & examples [giving me] ideas to build off of. Great emphasis on the myth of D/s versus the reality & how to communicate to keep things interesting without dropping roles. I will definitely recommend your classes!
Dr_Green
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