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How to Celebrate National Erotic Humiliation Day
I can’t believe 2025 will be the 10th Annual National Erotic Humiliation Day! Time flies when you’re being pervy. Every year on the last Saturday of October (it will be Saturday, October 25th) we celebrate all of our dirty desires and share them with the world to honor a deeply misunderstood fetish: psychological torment and…
Read MoreAffirmations for Dominants: Growing Your Confidence and Connection
Gain More Dominant Confidence With Affirmations Being a Dominant in a kinky relationship is about much more than taking control or setting rules. It’s a role that requires confidence, leadership, connection, and a deep level of self-acceptance. Yet, even the most experienced Doms can struggle with self-doubt, uncertainty, or the occasional feeling of inadequacy. We…
Read MoreThe Red Key Club is Moving to RedKeyClub.com!
After four incredible years of hosting the Red Key Club right here on Patreon, I’m thrilled to announce that we’re taking the leap to a bigger and better private platform! Say hello to the new and improved RedKeyClub.com! This move marks a significant milestone for us, and I couldn’t be more excited about the possibilities…
Read MoreFrom Burnout to Bliss: How to Handle the Ups and Downs in a Long-term Power Exchange Relationship
Power exchange (PE) relationships can be uniquely fulfilling, offering a blend of trust, intimacy, and excitement that many kinksters crave. However, like any relationship, a power exchange dynamic comes with its own set of challenges. While every relationship is different, there are some common struggles that many people in long-term D/s dynamics face. Here are…
Read MoreHow to Use Kink Books to Improve Your Practice
If you’re looking to deepen your understanding of kink and BDSM, reading books by kink experts can be a fantastic way to learn. Whether you’re new to the scene or a seasoned kinkster, there’s always something new to explore. Here are some tips on how to use kink books to enhance your practice and knowledge.…
Read MoreDaily D/s: A Communication Journal for Dominants and Submissives – Now Available!
The Daily D/s Journal is crafted to enhance the dynamic between dominants and submissives. Whether you are experienced or new to the BDSM lifestyle, this journal will support and enrich your unique relationship through reflection, growth, and connection. It also serves as a record of your journey together, allowing you to look back at your…
Read MoreFinDom Fumbles: The Top 3 Errors New Doms Make
So, you’ve decided to dip your toes into the fascinating world of financial domination! Maybe you’ve heard stories of expensive gifts, loyal submissives, or waking up to a surprise $1,000 tribute. Maybe you’re enticed by the allure of being in control of someone else’s finances (who could blame you?). But before you dive headfirst into…
Read MoreFindom Debt Contracts: The Allure of Erotic Paperwork
The allure of financial domination lies in the exhilarating power dynamics it cultivates, and at the heart of this dynamic lies the commitment of a debt contract—a potent symbol of submission and devotion that sets pulses racing in the world of findom. For findoms (financial dominants), the seductive appeal of a debt contract lies not…
Read MoreDominant Led, Submissive Driven: Navigating Challenges in Female-Led Relationships
In the world of female-led, male submissive relationships (FLRs), the dynamic of a female dominant (also known as a femdom) and a male submissive can create a unique and fulfilling bond. However, one common challenge often arises: the femdom feeling overwhelmed and obligated to manage everything while the submissive waits passively, leading to frustration on…
Read MoreElevate Your Findom Confidence with the FinDom Humiliation Virtual Intensive
Hey there! If you’ve ever dipped your toes into the world of financial domination (findom), you know it can be both exhilarating and daunting. Whether you’re a newbie or a seasoned pro, building and sustaining confidence and a genuine understanding is crucial for success and enjoyment in this unique kink. That’s where my intensive comes…
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