prodomme mentoring

Take Control of Your Career

You’re an erotic entrepreneur ready to take your professional journey to the next level. You want to enhance your skills, deepen your connections with clients, and tackle any challenges that come your way. This is the coaching session designed to answer your questions and provide your insights. 

Whether you're an experienced ProDom looking to refine your craft or someone just starting out, Ask Me Anything: Professional Edition offers the expert guidance you need.

Unlike my more structured coaching experiences, Ask Me Anything: Professional Edition sessions are perfect for anyone who prefers a more organic and flexible session style regarding any and all questions related to your professional practice. 

Bring what’s on your mind, and I’ll bring years of expertise to support you.

There are very few defined pathways through a career in the sex industry. Maybe you’re navigating a new stage in your client dynamics. Maybe you’re curious about trying new kink techniques or resolving specific challenges. Or maybe you simply crave a space to brainstorm, process, and explore with someone who understand the adult industry and genuinely wants you to succeed

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Your questions lead the way.
Whether they’re focused, broad, or somewhere in between, you’ll leave with actionable insights tailored to your professional journey.

Topics That Can Be Covered

Finding your niche & specialties

How to build a memorable brand & well-known style

Ways to attract & keep your ideal clients

Streamlining systems (email, booking, social media)

Self-care & avoiding burn-out

Expanding your reach - videos, workshops, etc.

Also

Application, interview and general filtering process

Dealing with deposits, payments and tributes

Advertising: banners, places to post, places to advertise w/a good return rate

Personal Website: to do it or not to do it, what should be on it, etc.

Presenting yourself: photos, interests, limits

Setting & keeping boundaries: what’s for pro, what’s for personal

Pacing a professional scene: planning and keeping it exciting with limited options

How to handle stalkers and overly-emotional clients

Setting up a professional dungeon or traveling tool-kit

What to wear: fetish vs comfort

Communicating with the client in the scene and the dynamic: how to be a mind reader

Branching out into kink education or self-publishing

Thank you for existing as a coach for such a specialized art form. So many of us SW's work alone and have no one to talk to about our businesses. We often celebrate milestones alone and suffer from BS from bad clients we deal with. It's wonderful to have you as a guide throughout our journey and as we evolve artistically.

Irma La Dulce

Irma La Dulce

I’m Princess Kali (aka Kali Williams), and I’ve been fully immersed, both personally and professionally, in the psychology of kink and power exchange for nearly twenty-five years.

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While some things came naturally, many of the lessons I’ve learned have been hard won, and it’s become my life’s mission to share everything I’ve learned in a way that makes kink and D/s accessible, playful, and truly authentic.

If you’re looking for credibility and qualifications, there’s certainly no shortage here! In the last two-and-a-half decades, I’ve been a professional dominatrix (inducted into the Dominatrix Hall of Fame in 2022), a lifestyle coach and prodomme mentor, and an international educator and speaker in kink, academic, and mainstream spaces. In 2017, I created KinkAcademy.com, and in 2020 I launched the Red Key Club. I’m also the author of thirteen books and workbooks including Enough to Make You Blush and Authentic Kink (plus eight game and communication decks), with more titles on the way. 

What can I say? I’m pervy and prolific (and proud of it)! 

My approach to coaching is a joyful and enthusiastic one! I love helping you discover (or rediscover) your passion and power, and I’m deeply committed to normalizing the ways kinky people care for each other along with celebrating creative (and consensual) sexual exploration. 

What this means for you is that all of the knowledge, experience, insight, and ideas that I’ve acquired become available to you—like a living encyclopedia who gives you a fresh perspective and empowers you to trust yourself and grow your business.

Kink Coaching Packages

All packages are paid for in advance, are non-refundable and can be used for up to 6 months after purchase.
I can help you choose a package based on your situation and goals.

1

Session

$350

4

Sessions

$1,200

(save $200)

Bonus:
Receive a 3-month membership
to KinkAcademy.com and a Kink Essentials Book Package

8

Sessions

$2,400

(save $400)

Bonus:
Receive a 1-year membership
to KinkAcademy.com and a Kink Elite Book Package

What You Get

Phone/Zoom sessions with me
(60-75 minutes per session)

Optional recording(s) so you can reference our discussion later

Suggested resources and exercises to continue progress on your own

Discounts on my books, decks, and other kinky goodies in my Etsy store as well as future coaching sessions

Working with Kali was extremely productive! I had high expectations walking in and luckily they were all met. The meeting was not only informative, but I walked away with actionable steps that fit my goals perfectly. I especially appreciate how passionate Kali is about my project and what is important to me which truly made the advice feel very catered and specific  for me. I look forward to working with her in the future.

Mistress Alicia

Limited Kink Coaching Spots Available

Booking a Session

Please answer these questions with as much or as little information as you’re comfortable with. However, the more information you share the better I'll be able to tell if we're a good match and if I'll be able to help you meet your goals. All information is confidential.

 

All sessions are done by phone or Zoom video conferencing, so it doesn't matter where you live
(I'm based in the San Francisco, CA area on Pacific Time.)


What's Next?

After I receive your application, you'll receive a response within three to four business days. If I determine that we're a good match to work together, but you still have additional questions, you'll have the opportunity to schedule a 15 minute meet and greet. Once you purchase the package best suited to your needs, we’ll schedule our first session and create a game plan!

In the meantime, sign up for my newsletter, check out my written articles, or visit my Etsy store!

 

 

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Red Key Club

Kali's most recent project is the Red Key Club, a limited-time business and marketing school for prodommes, cam models, PSO's, and other erotic entrepreneurs.

Become a Red Key Club member to gain access to live group coaching sessions, plus 30 recordings, including classes, interviews, and Q&A sessions.

Thank you so much for the wonderful class on humiliation yesterday evening. It was very educational and entertaining (your stories were hilarious!). I look forward to reading your book Enough to Make You Blush and any other books you write in the future.

A

You gave me one of those "click" moments that I was talking about :) I feel like I now have some wonderful tools to help me grow as a kinkster and to help me negotiate amazing scenes.

nameless_rose

I so enjoyed Your very informative, interactive, energetic & engaging online class today! Findom no different than any other kink IMO. All about context, intent and consent. You enthusiastically showed great ways to make it fun, practical & rewarding to those wishing to explore. 

Chris

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