Posts Tagged ‘dominance’
From Burnout to Bliss: How to Handle the Ups and Downs in a Long-term Power Exchange Relationship
Power exchange (PE) relationships can be uniquely fulfilling, offering a blend of trust, intimacy, and excitement that many kinksters crave. However, like any relationship, a power exchange dynamic comes with its own set of challenges. While every relationship is different, there are some common struggles that many people in long-term D/s dynamics face. Here are…
Read MoreDominant Led, Submissive Driven: Navigating Challenges in Female-Led Relationships
In the world of female-led, male submissive relationships (FLRs), the dynamic of a female dominant (also known as a femdom) and a male submissive can create a unique and fulfilling bond. However, one common challenge often arises: the femdom feeling overwhelmed and obligated to manage everything while the submissive waits passively, leading to frustration on…
Read MoreCreating Female Led Relationship Rules That Work
For many years, all of my submissives were required to greet me properly. This meant requesting permission, kneeling at my feet, and kissing my feet three times. Rules like this immediately re-immerse you both into your chosen roles in a female-led relationship or other Dominant/submissive dynamic. Female-led relationships (FLRs) are unique and empowering dynamics where…
Read MoreSelecting the Right Kink Coach for Your Journey
So, you and your partner have delved into the enticing world of femdom and Female Led Relationships (FLRs), where the power dynamics tilt in favor of the woman. It’s not just about bedroom antics; it’s a lifestyle, a dynamic that infuses your everyday existence with a delicious dose of power play and mutual satisfaction. But,…
Read MoreEmbracing Submission: The Power of Affirmations in FLRs
In the realm of relationships, there exists a vast spectrum of dynamics, each unique and tailored to the individuals involved. Among these, Female Led Relationships (FLRs) stand out as a paradigm where the woman takes the lead, guiding the relationship’s direction, dynamics, and often, the intimate aspects too. Within this framework, affirmations, those empowering statements…
Read MoreStruggling With Submission As A Woman
In my experience there can be a great deal of guilt on both sides of the D/s dynamic, regardless of gender. So I’m going to do a series of articles about some of the struggles and solutions from each perspective. I presented one of my favorite ‘conceptual’ classes at Ramabo College, D/s as a Feminist…
Read MoreHow do I bring a Second Dominant into My Established Cuckolding Relationship?
I recently received this email and thought it would make a great blog post to share my thoughts with everyone! Dear Princess Kali, I have read a lot about you and have seen many of your videos and I really appreciate what you bring to the kink community. Even though I have never heard…
Read More5 Things To Remember As A New Dominant
Everyone has to start somewhere. Even if we have a naturally dominant nature, putting that to use in a D/s context can have its challenges. There are a lot of novels & fantasy stories about how ‘easily’ it all comes when someone is a “true dominant”, but this isn’t any more accurate than saying how…
Read MoreLong Distance Kink – Power Play
The kink community can seem both large and small, but one thing is for sure, we’re all over the nation, and the world. It isn’t unusual for to perverts to play together at an event, make a great connection, and decide to carry on a relationship (be it D/s, service or sexual) long distance. At…
Read MoreKeeping Your Kinky Connection, Even With a Busy Schedule
Many couples that enjoy kinky sex and/ or relationship structures feel that it’s important for BDSM to not be just something that is done in the bedroom but rather as a way to live life. For others kinky sex is something fun to explore but only in the bedroom. Regardless, keeping kink in your…
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