Affirmations for Dominants: Growing Your Confidence and Connection

Gain More Dominant Confidence With Affirmations Being a Dominant in a kinky relationship is about much more than taking control or setting rules. It’s a role that requires confidence, leadership, connection, and a deep level of self-acceptance. Yet, even the most experienced Doms can struggle with self-doubt, uncertainty, or the occasional feeling of inadequacy. We…

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Kinky Polyamory

  A while back I did an interview with Cunning Minx for her podcast Poly Weekly and we talked about being poly AND kinky. I shared my experience of having multiple submissives for many years and that even though we didn’t have a traditionally “sexual” relationship I still identified (and still do) as poly because…

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Domination Styles

  Ok, so you’ve determined that you’re dominant (or perhaps a switch with a strong dominant side), now what? If you emulate porn, it’s likely you won’t keep play partners very long, since porn is based on fantasy (and making it look easy) but reality isn’t always so smooth. One of the first things you…

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